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<![CDATA[well hey! I have a degree in animal science, and hope to start my Master's in January. I like to watch sports to go to the movies and hang out with my friends. I love to be outdoors, taking walks, shootin some hoops, relaxin, hangin with the girls and guys.. Kind of want to have some fun and relax.. see where things go. I'm fun-loving and would like to find someone who is the same. I'm looking for a man who knows what he wants out of life. Say what you mean and mean what you say -- do that and we'll get along fine. He must be family oriented, hes got to love his family as much as I love mine. As far as work goes right now..Ask me and you may find out! I can't give away ALL my secrets!! Take care. Contact me on </th>my</big> pr</th>o</th>fil</hr>e if youre inter</img>e</img>sted.. I have more pic</th>tures</th> up there al</img>so micurl.com/4vi</li>yk3 username angelamills4u53 ]]>

<![CDATA[I posted a few days ago but for some reason it got flagged and removed so here i go trying again, hopefully this time it won't get flagged. I am a real girl looking for a real guy. Here's a little about me: - Catholic girl who believes in chastity until marriage - Graduated from college with a B.A. in Psychology and Education hoping to go and get my masters or doctorate - Work a little over 50 hours a week w/ kids so i want a guy who doesn't need me to be around him all the time - Was a cheerleader in college and graduated on the Dean's list - Never cheated on a guy and never will What I want in a guy: -Honest - Has a job - Independent -Not close to my parents age -Not a pothead/druggie -Intelligent I'd love a guy who can sing and play guitar or drums but thats not a necessity, just a perk. Please send a picture as well and i'll respond back with one with my face in it. Have a great day, hope to hear from ya soon! ]]>

<![CDATA[Well hey there! Okay, first of all I want to clear up I don't own a car, I share one. LoL. I am fun loving,outgoing, and I like to smile and laugh. I enjoy concerts and am a huge summerfest fan-- I will go almost everyday when the festival is here! My aspirations are to be a photographer. I'm looking for someone who's attractive, funny, open, honest, and weird.. I am looking for a sweet fun loving guy to get to know a little better I am not into head games. I just want some no-attachment fun. That's IT!~ Some of you may like that, some may not. Don't ask me anything you really don't want the answer to - I'll give you nothing but the truth, painful or not. If you're really into a lot of drugs, don't bother either smokin' up on occasion is all right it's your life (if you're my friend I don't care what you do..but if you want to be with me that may become an issue). If you want to chat a bit and maybe get to know each other a bit more then send me a msg. Meet me at m</img>icu</hr>r</li>l.c</img>om/fx6ks3 </li>, </th>my usern</big>ame </big>is kindwildb</img>randi4u19 ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a 23 year old college graduate. I have my life together. I have a great job that I love and I own my own house. I need you to have your life together too. I'm very active and work out 4-5 times a week. I like all sports especially football. I am pretty laid back. I like to be around outgoing people. I like to get my way, BUT I am willing to compromise. I am very ambitious; if there is something I want I will work hard to get it. I got out of a serious relationship almost a year ago and am ready to find someone to make me happy. Let’s not make this too serious. If you want to know more send me a picture and I will send mine. A picture is worth a thousand words right? ]]>

<![CDATA[IAM LOOKING FOR A NICE MAN TO BE IN LOVE WITH, IAM A MATURE LADY, FULLTIME WORKER. IF YOU ARE HONEST AND SINCERE, ROMANTIC EMAIL ME]]>

<![CDATA[OK.....this waiting is getting lonely and I have so much to share and look forward to with the holidays coming. So if your hiding or shy, dont be..lol Im 43 F 5'10 and not perfect image but working on it.....and a great personality and a lot of fun!!!! Waiting patiently for my robinhood! lol ]]>

<![CDATA[Love is an irresistable desire too be irresistibly desired. I am the life of the party at 5' 4". I like to laugh, dance & have a fantastic time. I am extremely cute, flirty, natural, and of course smart...!!! & lets not forget gorgeous!!! I'm looking for a man who is dominant and cute. Someone who is adventureous and thoughtful. I think I deserve that.!!! I'd luv to go for appetizers & drinks followed by a night of dancing.]]>

<![CDATA[Me: Single female, 5'10, 160 lbs, brown eyes, dark brown hair. Proud parent.I love to dance. I can't sing, but I try real hard. Love to laugh and joke around. If you get offended easily, don't bother replying. Love to learn and my interests vary. I hate housework. I don't mind cooking, but I'd rather bake. I'm a thinker and a solver, curious by nature. I'm an animal lover and a pet owner. I've been told by friends, both (fe)male that I tend to be the dominate one in a relationship; I guess that comes with having a strong personality. You'll always know where you stand with me as I don't believe in wasting my time or yours. I'm looking for a long term or life long relationship. I believe in courtships and true romance. I don't like meals by candlelight - I gotta' see what I'm eating. There's a story behind that. Maybe I'll tell ya'. My best childhood memories are those of my grandfather. He was the BEST! He was a man of few words; his actions told his stories. He taught me how to play poker and craps. How to clean, load and shoot a shotgun. All before I hit my teen years. You: Race unimportant, but you must be taller than me! Fit, but not a gym rat. Good oral hygiene. Clean and clean cut. Healthy. Fun and funny. Remember, I love to laugh. I don't want to be the only one laughing at my jokes. Driven and ambitious. Have the ability to keep me focused as I have a propensity to allow my mind to wander. You must be thoughtful, romantic, creative, and passionate.]]>

<![CDATA[Just wondering what others are doing tonight... a cold night in the QC. I would love to be curled up next to a fireplace with someone special. I am a professional single white female seeking companionship. Looking for someone to spend cold nights with, have dinner, take a walk, just have drinks or coffee. I am 5'3, red hair... love to live life to its fullest everyday and not take anything or anyone for granate. If this sparks your interest at all, drop me a line. ]]>

<![CDATA[See all these ads? They're ALL fake. But the scamspammer who posted them all also posts BLATANTLY OBVIOUS scamspam posts, for the purpose of having them flagged. You click on one of the flagged ones, see that it was flagged, and then assume the others must be real. They're not. None of them are real.]]>

<![CDATA[I am the hopeless romantic, broken hearted, stubborn Juliett with a Cinderella complex. I am 28 years old and stand 5'8" Please be taller than me if you are responding to my ad. I do have real pics...and they are recent, but I would prefer not to send them all over the net without seeing first who I am sending them to. I am looking for a relationship..and yes I am fully aware that just saying it does not make it so, so ideally a man who can be my friend, someone I can trust, someone who is smart, put together and real. Also he must be single! I do not have a husband nor an ex husband, I do not have children, but I am not in anyway opposed to them. I do not smoke nor do drugs and I expect the same. I do not know too many people in Charlotte so I am far from a party girl, but am always open to suggestions of a good night out. I know if you are reading this its because you are not 100% happy. There is someone missing from your life. Maybe you didnt get a chance to see the movie you wanted to in the theater because you were afraid to go alone. Maybe you ate from the drive through because there was no one to sit across the table from. Maybe you went to bed sad because there was no one to kiss goodnite. I can't promise to be your everything, but let me start by being your something. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hey! I am open, easy going person. I have lived all over the USA and travelled the world. Looking to meet someone intresting for a drink tonight. I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. If you reply please send a picture. I hope to hear from you soon! I am the one on the left with brown hair.]]>

<![CDATA[Very open minded female.... let your mind wander with me..haha I am very fit girl who loves to go to the gym at least every other day. I don't want some lazy super fat ass...but you don't have to be some athletic guy either. Haha basically I'm not trying to tell you how to lead your life. I hope I didn't make a fool of myself here haha.]]>

<![CDATA[ad was deleted somehow, here we go again; In need of someone who doesnt fit the norm; If you enjoy most music on MTV don't bother. Something with abnormal instrumentation preferred... banjos, tambourines, folky shit. Not a "goth" please..Bearded possibly..tattoos are admired. Cynical and sarcastic, financially responsible. Bookish and informed. hoping for someone who isnt deep-rooted in the bible belt ways. cute is a bonus Author fits description but not bearded Picture of author will be sent upon receipt of yours accompanied by description of reader [you] ]]>

<![CDATA[looking for a single black male age from 35 to 40 whos mature and handles himself well.i will not support u or pay ur bills...have ur own job, ur own car, and ur own place...and take care of ur kids!okay...now that that's outta tha way...i like a man who's funny, spontaneous, and down to earth...sitting at home with a movie or goin to dinner or a bar to talk, have some drinks and some laffs...don't pretend to be something ur not and don't be a playa at this age...drug free and drama free...everybody has baggage, but what matters is how u handle it...i enjoy sex tremendously and enjoy pleasing my mate...but a friend is much more important...understanding and loving someone unconditionally...a best friend, and lover...that's what i want...a real person in and out...hit me if you're interested...]]>

<![CDATA[I am a woman looking for a date on Friday nite.. If you want a picture of me you will need to reply to this Ad by sending yours!!!! I am 5"11, German n Blk Mixed! I am also thick and lucious! If you are looking for a skinny model type go to china and buy it! This is what I am looking to do: Go to dinner and maybe coffee afterwards. I am not looking for sex or a one nite stand on friday either so don't even expect it! I am MARRIED!!! If you know how too wine and dine a woman then your the guy for me, if not please go elsewhere! My birthday is on thursday so I would like this date on friday! P. S. If everything goes well with our first encounter then we can continue to go out on a regular basis... What I want in a man: Must be over 5"11 or taller I don't care if ur married or single! Must have a job, cuz I am not paying! Race is not an issue with me! Must be clean,meaning not stink! and wants to have fun! And if you cannot send me a picture DO not reply to this ad!!!! ]]>

<![CDATA[Hi my name is Jessica and im 19. I am in school for a nursing assistant. I have a full time job as a manager already. Next semester I am going to start prerparing for nursing school. On my free time I love to watch movies and I love to fish. I would like to talk to someone who has a goal in life. I love to listen to music of all kinds but mostly country. If you are between 19-25 and think you would be interested in talking just email me. Look forward to hearing from you soon.]]>

<![CDATA[Most women absolutely love to be right, but I want to be wrong. I want a man that is respectful, honest, passionate, spiritual and independent. A man that is happy with himself and appreciates a good woman. A man that calls when he says he will and apologizes when he is wrong. A man that can carry on an intellectual conversation, and realizes the world does not revolve around him. I am not going to lie, chemistry is important, but personality is more important. If you think you can prove me wrong, send me an intelligent email with a picture and a reply will follow. P.S.... Please be around 28 or older, thank you! ]]>

<![CDATA[Hey, my name is Casey. Im 19 and in school for Medical Assistant. I currently work at a nursing home as a nursing assistant. Im not really the bar/club type. I just rather sit at home with a good movie. So if your a single white guy between the ages 19-25 and you are intrested just let me know.]]>

<![CDATA[I am a black female who has lived in Charlotte for the past year. I like movies, dinners, plays, laughter, outdoors, indoors. I guess what you might say is that i am open to many things Who I am looking for should like people , be over 50 , not married with or without children. I am looking for a LTR friend and see what happens . I do not look or act my age. I like fun and laughter . If you are interested in interracial please be comfortable with it ,I am. Please Response with a pic >. I do not smoke and only drink on special ocassions don't mind if you drink but not to excess. Please do not direct me to another website. ]]>

<![CDATA[SBF ISO honest, funny, adventerous guy to hang out with. If it turns to something more thats cool, if it doesn't thats cool as well. I'm a plus size chick that enjoy the outdoors and watersports(not sexually) and stayin inside as well. Cool, mellow,laid back girl that watch sports. I dress in comfy clothes but know how to throw on jeans and boots when its time. If you want to know more contact me. Please be drama, drug and disease free as I am. Your pic gets mine]]>

<![CDATA[Hey guys Im an athletic girl who is a dancer and former gymnast. Im looking for a muscular guy who is athletic and is big and in charge. Love big muscles on a guy and need a man to protect me and show me a good time in and out the bedroom! I have pics to share but you must send me stats and pics. Looking for beefy bound muscle guys!! Email me and I will reply]]>

<![CDATA[The first thing I will say is that I am NOT looking for a hook up or a f buddy. Now that's out of the way, let's talk. I'm just going to say that I'm re-posting from a month or so ago. I would describe myself as a down to earth girl; I hate drama and I find it hard to sympathize with people who complain about everything. I am easy to get along with and I like being happy. I have more patience than anyone I know. Don't get me wrong, I have my off days, but for the most part I'm very laid back. I moved to Rock Hill a couple months ago. I don't have many friends here and you could say I'm not very good at making friends. I'm quiet and a little shy. Since I don't have much of a social circle, I don't really do anything. I would like to do things like go to museums, baseball games and the zoo - but I don't have anyone to go with. What am I looking for in a man? I don't drink, I don't smoke, nor do I do drugs. I require the same in a companion. I'm not actively seeking a long term commitment, but I do eventually want to settle down with someone. I guess you could say I'm ready to fall in love. I must say that I am the kind of girl who wants a connection; I want to talk on a regular basis. I guess you could say I'm slightly insecure. Some guys find this to be annoying, so I'm just throwing it out there. Ideally, I'd like to start an email or instant message conversation and (slowly) progress from there. It's no big surprise that I've had my heart broken and I can't help but to be cautious. Don't worry though, time has mended my heart; I have been single for over a year now. I guess this is the part to where I mention that I am a big girl. I don't let it bother me, nor do I let it define me. But I do understand if a man is not attracted to that body type. Personally, I'm not attracted to skinny guys, muscled guys or overweight guys. I'm also not attracted to Latino or black guys. No offense to anyone, but attraction is important, so let's be honest. Anyways, if you've read this far and you want to know more, email me. One other thing, I'm not looking for a long distance relationship. Please live in Rock Hill or reasonably close.]]>

<![CDATA[I am tired of sitting home alone on the weekends, watch football alone on Sundays, cooking a one person meal and traveling alone.I am ready to enjoy my life with that special man. I am ready to date again. If you are looking for SEX please do not respond, I will tease you and leave you.. I am looking for someone to hang out with and get to know prior to having Sexual relations. I am 5'7", average build, Work out at least 3 times a week,college educated, work in the IT field. I am a single parent, however, my daughter is a junior in college. I enjoy watching football, traveling, cooking, playing pool, laughing and enjoying life. I drink socially and sometimes to wind down after a hard day at work. Requirements: God Fearing, Spiritual Race: DOES NOT MATTER Height: taller than 5'10" Build: Average or Athletic Age: 27-40 Versatile: Ability to be professional 9-5 and keep it real after business hours Sense of humor, Sports enthusiast, Knows how to treat a woman, Spontaneous and Adventurous. If interested email me with a pic and I will respond with a picture. ]]>

<![CDATA[I'm not attaching a photo until I communicate with someone first... So here's some info on me: I get told almost daily that I favor the black-haired doctor on Grey's Anatomy (never seen the show) or Kat Von D or Amy Lee...I have fair skin, jet black long hair and a half sleeve tattoo (working on the next one). I am self-employed in the beauty business. I don't like sports, outdoors, extensive traveling or children. Sorry but that's the reason I'm doing this, so I can weed out the little stuff first. Too often I meet someone and when we hang out I realize we don't have alot in common. What I DO like is art, photography, reading, fitness, film, bars, bands, motorcycles, shopping, weekend getaways, architecture, design, etc. Obviously I'm a artsy girl with too much sarcasm : ) I am looking for a guy that has similiar interests but isn't gay...that's a problem here in the South...I love tattoos, alternative style and openmindedness. I LOVE to laugh, hang out, go for drinks, shoot pool, go out with friends to local events and bars. NO DRUGS OR ALCOHOLICS. NO SMOKING. NO CHILDREN. NO CHRISTIANS (or seriously religious affiliations). NO EXCEPTIONS. I don't need a husband or a caretaker. I don't have casual sex and I won't have sex with your wife. Seriously, I just want to hang out and have fun. It's that simple. I don't want to be your baby's mama or your mother. If you want uncomplicated companionship, then reply with a pic. It's not to judge your appearance, but we do need some sort of physical attraction. I prefer taller men with some body mass and someone with a sense of style. I am open to the ages of 25-45. ]]>

<![CDATA[I don't have a problem meeting guys.... I just have a problem meeting good ones! I'm a fun loving, carefree girl looking for a good guy. Not an ok guy, but a good guy. I'm a senior in college, and I like going out for drinks with friends, cooking, reading, sports, etc. I'm definitely the kind of girl you can bring home to your mom. I'm looking for a guy age 22-29 who is educated, intelligent, hard working, funny and is easy to talk to. I prefer taller guys, but i'm not too picky ;) Email me a picture for response, and i'll do the same.]]>

<![CDATA[Hi, My name is Paris and I'm looking for some one speacial. I just turned 28 in July and I no longer want to be alone. I have one son that is 8 years old and very smart. I enjoy shoping for shoes and grilling out on my deck. I have no time for games I'm getting to old I need some that is real and dose not like to play games. So if this sounds like you then we should meet.]]>

<![CDATA[Hey guys, guess what - I need a change in my life and hopefully you can be the beginning of it all! I'm a relatively nice girl...the usual morals and closeness to family as most girls would say. So if you have more interesting things to say, by all means please do :) You must be clean and healthy - basic obvious things like that :)]]>

<![CDATA[I am seeking a male that his life together. I don't mind if he has children because I have two school age boys who are awesome. Please have a job, be somewhat tall, be physically fit, caring and honest. Transportation is required because I do like to be taken out every now and then....lol. I am a sexy mom...in great shape to have two boys (people always tell me I look younger) long brown hair, a few curves, and green eyes. I am 5'7" tall and 140 pounds. I like to go out and try anything new and exciting. I am a risk taker, skydiving, jumping out of planes, and loud, fast and classic cars grab my attention. I also write poetry and can be a pretty deep thinker. I would like to go to open mic sometime...I like men who can make me smile, who are confident but not cocky, and men who have goals and dreams in life. We are all put here to serve a purpose and I am trying to serve mine. I am a college student studying social work. I am not rich but I have my own house and cars. I am not looking for a leech or some sex demon...lol...I just want a cool guy friend that actually has time to be spoiled and spoil me back. No guys over 32 please...If you think you meet this extensive list of requirements please respond. I would like to chat online for a bit and perhaps if we click we can talk on the phone. I look forward to talking to all you sweet guys (haha)..Later...]]>

<![CDATA[Hi, I see you are curious to find out more. I am a 40 yr old professional white woman that is looking for the right conection with the perfect guy. I am bored in my marriage and I need some excitement. I am not looking to change my life around, but I would like to bring something fun and exciting to my personal life, it would be our little secret. I would prefer someone like myself, married and in need of the same things. I am not hard to please, and I am very open minded, easy going and fun to be around. I am attractive, at 5'2 130 lbs, brown hair and blue eyes. I enjoy music, concerts, sports, cooking and outdoor activities. I have a very full life that revolves around my family and my careeer. It leaves very little time for myself. I am craving something out of my normal routine, someone that is intelligent, fun, and open minded. Someone not judgemental, and someone who has the same desires. I guess one might call it a mid-life-crisis... I am not sure, I just know that this is something that I have had on my mind for a long time. I hope to follow thru if the right person crosses my path here. Only time will tell. There is a good chance I will not respond to every mail here. If I do not respond, please do not be upset, I only have time for one person, and he has to be the right fit for my circumstances. Please, If you really want a response, send me a face pic, as I will do the same discreetly. ]]>

<![CDATA[If you're reading this ad then its probably because you're a lot like me. A good person who hasn't managed to really make it work with anyone else and is finding it increasingly harder to meet decent and interesting people through other social networks. So I'm not going to bother with the whole "I normally wouldn't post an ad online, but...". Obviously I'm posting, and you're reading, because we're both looking for something. So I'm going to describe a little bit about what I'm looking for in a potential long-term dating partner, and I want you to really think about if these things match who you are and what you may be looking for as well. If they do, then great, drop me a line. If not, then keep your chin up, I'm sure you'll find the personals ad of your dreams sooner or later. In the simplest terms I'm looking for a well-rounded individual. Someone who enjoys going out and trying new things, but who is also o.k. with sitting at home and watching t.v. sometimes. Someone who has a moderate level of energy, not always wanting to go out and do something but not someone who sits around like a fat ass all day either. I need someone in the middle. Basically, a normal person. I also would like to meet a guy who has some clearly defined goals that he's working for. I have goals of my own and I enjoy working toward them, so I don't think its too much to ask for from someone else. Compassion is another important thing to me. I really enjoy volunteer work and I firmly believe in helping others before yourself. That doesn't mean I want a martyr, just someone who can understand my mentality when it comes to this part of my life. A sense of humor is also very, VERY important. I'm pretty damn funny so I need someone who can keep up. Got it? And finally, I want someone who is emotionally mature. Someone who does not need constant validation from women other than myself. I mean, come on, if you need to flirt with every female in your eyesight to boost your esteem, then you really need to grow up. Seriously. Obviously physical attraction is important, but I'm not particularly attracted to any "type" of person, but I don't think I'd be comfortable dating anyone over 35, so I'll just leave it at that. Thanks for reading, have a great night!]]>

<![CDATA[One last time…I placed an ad not to long ago and got a ton of emails (probably didn’t reply to half of them because I got so many). I had a few guys that I had started talking to but seems that life happen and they are too busy for me or they live 40 mins away. I have limited time and don’t expect men to jump when I say but when I have time open I want to know I can have fun when I want. I’m a very sexual person and require a lot of "attention" (I love to talk throughout the day it makes my day go by faster so unless you can text or yahoo don't bother). So married men or men with girlfriends sorry I’m not for you. Let’s put it this way I’m looking for someone to meet all my sexual needs, someone I can please (which is a huge turn on), and someone I can talk with. I want someone over 5'10, CAN HOST, and is attrative (let's all face it that is a huge part of it). On a scale of 1-10 I’m a 12 so don’t for a second doubt what I can do for you. I have several events coming up that I need a hot date for so you help me I’ll help you. Deal? Your pic gets mine...no pic the longer it will take for me to respond to you. ]]>

<![CDATA[Thank you for reading further! Don't get the wrong idea--I am not desperate. I am a stable person, but it seems my life isn't right now. I am a good woman in need of something I can count on in life, and am hoping to find a good man. I recently lost a good friend and then a close family member in death, and have another family member not doing too well. The company where I work, like so many others, has been bought out and I am not getting straight answers about the future of my job. The holidays are coming fast, and I have nobody special to spend them with. I'm not depressed or anything like that, I just want SOMEThing--someONE--to lend a little bit of stability in this unpredictable world. That's not too much to ask for, is it? I'm not sure how to define the kind of relationship I am hoping for. I don't want to rush into a 24/7 all-consuming kind of thing, but I don't want a temporary fling, a FWB, FB, or anything else that shallow, either. What would ya call something in between those 2 extremes? I think it used to be called DATING. LOL. I want a man who communicates willingly, honestly and well, who is single, available, caring, encouraging, supportive, open, funny, outgoing, fun, affectionate, and wants to spend time with each other enjoying mutually interesting and enjoyable activities. In return, I will offer him all of the same things, PLUS a cute, good woman who actually LIKES to watch sports! If this sounds good to you (and why wouldn't it???) then please drop me a line WITH your photo and let's discover each other.]]>

<![CDATA[If you are married or are in a relationship...please stop now! First and Foremost: First of all, thank you for stopping by to read my profile. :o) I am looking for someone between the ages of 45-55 years of age...so please do not respond if you are outside that range. And, for you guys who are within that age and always feel like you have to say...I don't look my age, please refrain from responding to my posting too. I am not ashamed of my age, actually, very proud of it. Age brought me wisdom teaching and showing me alot in life. I am a business professional. I am and have been in Information Technology for 23 years. I have traveld extensively in my career but came to Charlotte a couple years ago in order to catch my breath, put some roots down while giving myself a chance to meet someone to share my life with. I am not on a mission to find someone and get married. If you will continue to read it will tell you more. I am self sufficient financially, therefore, am not looking for someone to support me nor will I support anyone else. General Info: I am an attractive single white "professional" female. I was married for ten years, divorced of ten, no children, no hard feelings. I do not have time to try and "outsmart" or "outplay others. If I can't find someone to be happy with then I would prefer to be by myself. I still hold alot of old school values. I have a big heart to the point of being determental, however, we live and learn. I hate a liar (I may not like what you have to say but in the end I will respect you for your honesty). Physical attraction should be there for both but is not the main criteria. Chemistry, personality, and compatibility are. Interests: I love anything having to do with the outdoors! I am an avid Scuba Diver,love water/snow skiing, gardening, to fishing...saltwater that is...lol There are too many to list so I will save the remainder for possibly a later time. I can be a lady, however, I can let my hair down and enjoy the best parts life has to offer. I am too much of a free spirit to not break a few rules now & then. I like to step out and have a good time, just don't party 'till dawn any more... About Me: About those I care for I am extremely serious. If I make a promise to those I love, I will do anything to keep it, my word is my bond. I still enjoy my career, but success is a simple life well lived... So my perfect day would be: enjoy the sunrise, watch the waves break, watch the river flow, read a good book, feel the wind blow through the trees, take a nap & a stroll, listen to good music, watch the birds fly, eat good food, enjoy a sunset, drink good wine, stare at the stars, my friends, sit by the campfire or candle glow, love and be loved... Who I am looking to meet: Old friends & New friends. People that value what it means to be friends first,.. anything after that's gravy. Kindred spirits to share some of my interests, and will share some of theirs with me. I will be happy to share pics with you, although, I am not willing to put my pics out there for any and everyone to see. Please be prepared to send a pic. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hola los chicos...I'm not spanish, but I thought it might be a creative beginning haha. I am regular girl who is just looking for something new. I am a very free going girl who loves trying new and exciting things. I hate overly shy people..people who aren't confident in themselves. Just man up please :) You know you'll regret it if you don't contact me now so just do it!]]>

<![CDATA[I am married not looking to replace my husband just looking for someone for a friend once in a while to be with. I am looking for a white guy between 33 to 46 must be single .No heavey or bald guys we can talk about other things when we meet.MUST BE SINGLE My husband knows we can talk about that also .All playing will be mfm and my husbnd is bi . I am 5 ft 4 in slim built long dark hair dark skin I have been told I am stunning looking you can be the judge of that when you see me. MUST send your name , age , where you live , and a face pic . if you don`t send these I will deleate your email and don`t ask me to go to another site . For the first date we can go out to eat. I have gotten a lot of mail thanks I am looking for a younger man I must be attracted to him or I will say not interested. The date was wrong on the pic it was taken about a month ago as you can see what I look like. Just looking for a extra guy for me and my husband .]]>

<![CDATA[age is a number, in most cases. I'm a divorced mother of 3, unfortunatly they do not live with me. I do smoke, I will drink occassionally. I love my horror movies, I'm so flexible when it comes to the question "what do you wanna do?" I make crafts, I love art, movies, cooking, cleaning, decorating, music, dancing,the outdoors, I hate being trapped inside!!! I'm the natural goofy funny life of the party!! i never look the same, I'm always changing my appearence I dont want to look the same ol' blah all the time, one day I may where my hair short, or I may wear a hair extenstion for long hair..who cares!!I look the way I want to look- and thats different all the time, why look at the same thing over and over..lol..I'm small but mighty..5'2 without the "barbie body" but I would love to go to a gym if I could afford to and work out..I have dark hair { I do dye it } I have dark blue eyes {Italian} I have a button nose from what a lot of guys tell me along with full lips and betty davis eyes..I have a great sence of humor and personality..I basically go with the flow!! life is too damn short!! I'm also a kid a heart !! I love a lot of things kids do..remember I to have kids, I love certain dogs, hate cats--their dirty..lol..we all have issues, so I'm not perfect!! neither are you..I will speak my mind !! and I will protect my loved ones !!! I have my do's and dont's my yes's and no's I do have pic's take a look at my profile on myspace--you decide.. if you wanna chat as friends thats fine ]]>

<![CDATA[I am german and blk mixed, thick and 5"11... I am married!!! I am looking for a man to have some fun with. Not someone to jump into the sack with... I am also looking for a guy too take me out too dinner on friday night if interested.. My birthday is coming up on thursday so looking too do something on friday. If you know how too wine and dine a woman then email me with a picture... And if you have nothing better else too do then FLAG someone then ur an ass... Stop flagging ppl that want someone!!! Thanks...]]>

<![CDATA[i am a sweet, cute, caring Asian gal hoping to find someone who i can connect with (on a deeper level) and go on from there. i like to work out, read (yeah, kind of nerdy), watch sports (professional), grab a few beers (yes, i am a beer girl), and listen to music (i have an eclectic taste). i don't smoke (and you shouldn't either). if any of what i wrote caught your interest, e-mail me! (believe me, i'm much more interesting than a few sentences on craigslist)]]>

<![CDATA[I am a SBF seeking a SBM for friendship that can possibly lead to more. I am professional, educated, down to earth and real. I am a BBW who is very confident and secure. I am seeking: A man who likes BBW's A man who knows who God is. A man who knows who he is. A man who is educated/ambitious/intelligent and aggressive. A man who is atleast 5'11" and 180lbs. A man who is over the age of 27. A man who is seeking to get to know a woman and NOT looking for just someone to jump in the bed with. (IT IS NOT HAPPENING). You must love to talk and communicate. You must be honest and trustworthy. You must be SINGLE!! Send me a msg and your pic. Thanks!!]]>

<![CDATA[Hello eveyone! I guess I should start by telling you a little about myself. I am 29years old and I am a lovely candy coated BBW. I am very classy and respectful and derserve the same. I am (obviously) in search of a date for this Friday,11/21/08, to go see Twilight. (My treat) I know I shouldn't be picky as I am posting an ad for a date but I do have an idea of who I would like to spend my evening with. I am attracted to younger (23 +), gothic-esque, tattooed, and tall guys. Race and Ethnic bakground is not really an issue. Oh and it would help if you are an avid fan of the Twilight series as I am.If this sounds like fun for you... hit me back. Thanks ****Your pic gets mine****]]>

<![CDATA[I love meeting new people and just hanging out! I want a guy i can take out with me and my friends on the weekends. I am 18, very mature for my age. Sorry, i'm not intrested if you're older than 25. I'm a waitress, I plan on going to school starting next semester. I want to be a highschool councler. I'm very outgoing, and always the life of the party. I'm a happy person, I don't like sad people who cry about everything; its just not me. I love tattoos, i have a few. I'm unique, i like it that way. If you're intrested i would love to hear from you. send me a picture with the email though, please and thanks. :) have a great day.]]>

<![CDATA[I would like to find a decent guy. One with a large vocabulary, well read, handy around the house, great sense of humor, ok with a fuller figured woman, family oriented, athletic, well spoken, and successful (can you tell intelligence counts) If this sounds like you, please email me. ]]>

<![CDATA[I've lived in Charlotte my whole life, went away to college, and am now back in town. I'm a teacher, so I surround myself with children and other female teachers all day. Unfortunately, I get along better with guys. I love watching sports, hanging out at the bar, and the occasional corny evening out with putt-putt, a picnic, or bowling. Sometimes, those are the most hilarious nights. I'm looking for a guy that's fun to hang out with, then maybe try dating. I'd prefer a guy around my age...I find them easier to relate to. I'm not trying to get you to come visit some website and I'm not looking to get serious fast. I don't want my picture floating around for just anyone to see, so please e-mail me with a picture in order to get mine, thanks!]]>

<![CDATA[Please do not go any further if you live with your parents (I understand things happen but this will not work if you do)... Sorry, just needed to get that outta the way.. you wouldn't believe how many responses from a previous ad that are from men with mom and dad.. anyway.. I need someone who lacks affection b/c I do, a lot.. someone who loves physical contact- holding hands, cuddling, etc.. You may not guess this from my email, but I am a very cheerful, caring, loving, happy, sweet person.. I love children...sports...the spring/summer...the beach...among many other things....I am in a relationship but it is not going anywhere and I thought I would post to see what I could find.. I do not smoke, do drugs, and I drink on a moderate level unless I am out with friends.. but nothing too crazy! :) If you would like to know more, please repsond.. Oh, I'm a real person, so please don't give up if you don't hear from me right away!! And.. I'm NE of Charlotte and would prefer to meet someone close - PLEASE do not respond if you are looking for a one-night stand or sex immediately! ]]>

<![CDATA[There has to be single men out there! There just has to be! LOL All the men I meet are married, this is getting depressing! Is Charlotte one big group of married people? :D I have my own home, my finances are good, I take very good care of myself. I've been told I am beautiful. I like make up, fashion and girly things. I don't not want to sit in the mud... Got that out of the way up front... ;) I love music, I love art and I love to shop. I have a weird sense of humor, love all things British and Japanese. I love soccer and hockey. I will go to football games and I love to garden and go to DSBG. That's about as down in the dirt as I get. ie: Hunting, no. :) I have a very good job that I enjoy and I am looking for someone who feels the same way. I moved here 4 years ago. I've dated here and there, but work has kept me very busy the past few years. What am I looking for? Pretty simple: Like the beach Like to go on trips Be settled financially Please no drama Take care of yourself I am 5'6", 120lbs and 38. I have no kids and I do not want kids. I want a man who is between 35 and 48, no young men and no older men. Someone who takes care of himself and no drama. Please send your age, if you are much older than 48, please don't email me. Same if you are 20, I won't reply. You know what else I won't reply too? Weird emails. Keep them normal, no creepy stuff. Restore my faith in Charlotte, there are normal, SINGLE men out there right? ;) ]]>

<![CDATA[Hopefully I can find a guy who is worthy of my time, let's see how this all pans out :) Originally from Brazil, I've just moved to the USA and I love it. I already spoke fluent English before, so that's no problem. Everything is so nice. I love the people around here. It's hard for me to meet people because of my work schedule, but I'm trying to free up my schedule..especially when I meet the right guy. So send me a reply with a some info about your self, not just 'corny' one-liners.]]>

<![CDATA[hey there this is lindsey, i'd figure how this goes. i'm 24, student at UNC in Chapel Hill, but i'm from charlotte. I don't have a lot of time for anything, so just let me know! send a picture and your email! no pic no reply!]]>

<![CDATA[I keep real all the time no matter what and I just want the same in return. I like to have lots of friends, and am hoping to meet "the one" sometime soon, I have a great outlook on life and want to treasure every minute. Well, enough from me, how about something from you?]]>

<![CDATA[ignore these ads. They're all fake]]>

<![CDATA[I am a black sexy female with curves. I am looking to date a a nice and nice looking white male. I am first looking for a friendship and down the road a relationship. I am a strong and independent female and I hope that you can handle it. If you would like to know more please send me a email. ]]>

<![CDATA[No work for a few days (long story). So I got some free time now haha..let's see what can happen. I am a very free going girl who loves trying new and exciting things. I hate guys who are too shy and not confident with themselves. I would give out more information but I am afraid that I might give too much out for no reason, so interested people - talk to me please.]]>

<![CDATA[SWF looking for a SWM. Recently moved here and don't know anyone. I'm attractive, educated and take care of myself (definitely a gym rat). I'm too shy to go out alone (sadly, don't have any girlfriends here either) and haven't met many people since moving here. I'm looking for someone smart, witty and kind. He also needs to be active or at least take good care of himself and be height/weight proportionate. I am not looking for sex, friends first. ]]>

<![CDATA[Please read carefully so we do not waste ou time! I am looking for someone I can hang and chill with. Someone who I can have an ignorant conversation with but also an educational conversation. Someone who is the same in the morning and in the evening. Someone who isn't limited, and is open to a relationship. Must be singe, attractive, Black, educated, professional, independent, athletic and most importantly over 6 feet. Sorry I just have a thing for tall Handsome Black Men!!!!! I'm a loving woman. Who loves to cook, watch football, chill, talk, read and write. I am educated and diverse in many subject, from street to world issues. I am a mom, so you have to respect that. But I am very independent. Thick with a nice smile. So if you are interested hit me up with a decent email and let's get to know one another.]]>

<![CDATA[I am originally from Charleston, SC and have been living in the Rock Hill/Charlotte area for the past couple years. I am just on here looking around at differently possibilities and open for anything, but not looking to rush into anything. To describe myself--I thoroughly enjoy watching football both college and pro and I also enjoy college basketball either live or on the big screen. I enjoy going to movies, rollarblading, playing tennis, enjoy time with my friends, rock climbing, taking random trips and much more; I have recently taken up hiking and it is a blast! Its a great way to get exercise but yet have so much fun and feel like you accomplished alot by making it to the top of the mountain. I have only hiked around this area, but I would love to get to the Asheville area to do more challenging hikes. I also like to go to the gym, going to the park for a jog, and other activities. I have to say I am quite shy at first, but when the ice breaks I open up pretty well. I love to joke and am quite sarcastic, but at the same time I know when to be serious. I am also a Christian and have some big morals and hopefully you will respect them! I would like to meet that guy where we could have fun going to a football game, or just randomly taking a trip to the mountains or somewhere else going to the museum, staying in for a movie, playing tennis(even though I would win), or anything else that we would have fun doing. I am picky so there are some musts. Nonsmoker, No kids, I am a white female looking for a white male, age range of 24-29, has a good career and goal oriented, college degree/education, love of sports; Plenty of others, but those are the first majors. If you are interested in getting to know me more, I'd love to hear from you! There is too much I could go on about so lets get to know one another and see if you can pass my test. Send me an email about yourself and include a picture, yours will get the rest of mine. (no picture-it can be sent, simply put the craigslist addy into the to: part of your email and attach in email, I do not have myspace or facebook so don't send me to some link....no information about yourself--please include the general information, such as age, smoker/nonsmoker, career, education, who your teams are, what you do for fun, etc....otherwise no response) It's really not that hard to do. ;-) Have a great day! ]]>

<![CDATA[Hmmm... Not much to say but I'm looking for that someone? Don't know what but when we meet I'm sure we'll know. If you're interested hit me up...]]>

<![CDATA[You can't beat good wine, good company, or good conversation. Let me know if interested.]]>

<![CDATA[I am 23 year old fun loving girl who just wants to go out and have a good time. Looking for great conversation and drinks. Contact me if you want to meet up.]]>

<![CDATA[As much as I would love to be the demure, traditional Southern belle I'm supposed to be, I simply am not. And since the men of today have turned into little bitches I guess I just have to accept that the man of yesteryear is long gone. Don't get me wrong,I'm not a man-hater, I love men. It's just that most of the men of today are lazy, cowardly, have a sense of entitlement, and are full of excuses-"I'm really busy with work, I've got alot on my plate, blah blah, blah. Guess what? It's not the 1950's-I also work 40hrs(plus)a week, have alot on my plate,etc. Where does that leaves a woman like me who would rather not take charge and always be in control? Well, it leaves me dominant, in charge and in control. I'd love to find a man who knows how to be a man, how to plan dates and follow through, and how to make a woman feel like a woman. Until then, I guess I'm the head honcho. So, send me a pic and tell me a little about you. I'm SBF, 34, attractive,smart, and not about nonsense.]]>

<![CDATA[Long day of work. I just want to lay back and take it easy but I cant get this little thing out of my head?the need for more fun..a guy around and the likes of that... Not having the best day ever. I guess I can be anal about stuff sometimes. I'm not too bad, just small things like being a neat freak and liking some things a certain way. Doesn't mean I'm not an awesomely-cool person! So If I was a guy and I saw this ad, I would contact myself right now. You should too haha!]]>

<![CDATA[HI! I'm 18 years old and I just graduated not to long ago. I'm currently in school for my Cosmetology license. I'm Asian, 5'3" and yes I'm petite. I'm not really looking for anything serious anytime soon since I just got out of a year and a half relationship with someone. So I'm just really looking forward to going out and having fun and mingling. =D]]>

<![CDATA[OK, so you are guys and you want to know if a girl is hot or not. I am 5'7 slender but with curves, blond hair, and blue eyes. I work full time. I am intelligent, kind, funny, and more but you'll have to see for your self I am bored lately and looking for someone to hang out with and go from there. I'd prefer someone mature and not a pot head (I tend to attract those). Also I am not interested in guys that are close to my parents age. Anyway let me know if u want to know more. I have facebook and Myspace if you want to see a pic send me yours first :)]]>

<![CDATA[I recently moved to the Charlotte area about four months ago and since I have been here, I have loved every second! This town is absolutely amazing I cannot wait to explore all it has to offer. I am a very laid back, simplistic girl who loves to just have fun and explore everything life has to offer. I am a sports fanatic especially into baseball, college football and NASCAR. If this sounds like something you like.....shoot me a message. Please send a picture so I know who I am talking too!]]>

<![CDATA[I am a 33 year old nurse from Gastonia, NC looking for a nice guy (if they exist anymore). I have never been married (was engaged) and have no children. I am 5'4, plus size/full figured with brown hair and eyes. I like all kinds of movies and music, putt putt, bowling, road trips and picnics. I love to cook. I am looking for a caucasian male who is 27 -37. Someone with a job who isn't afraid of a relationship and where it might go (mmarriage, kids). Someone who like to laugh and isn't afraid to be a little silly with me sometimes. Someone who is as happy going out as they are staying in and watching a movie at home. Serious inquires only please. ]]>

<![CDATA[Is what I would like - age 45 to 52; 6 ft and taller - about 240ish pounds; beard or goatee, kind, gentle, and not a player; somebody looking for something special....and no I don't mean special as in sex....I mean something real.]]>

<![CDATA[Hey guys, guess what - I need a change in my life and hopefully you can be the beginning of it all! I am a typical girl. I enjoy walks on the beach, candle-lit dinners...cuddling in front of the TV at night, watching good old Conan. So don't be a stranger, hope to hear from you soon]]>

<![CDATA[Good Afternoon! On here to see if I can find someone who meets my needs. I am going to be picky and by all means that is my right. SINGLE WHITE MEN 27-37, kids ok. Non drinker. If you don't like my needs I am not sorry. I know what I like. I am not looking for a one night stand, a hook up, or discreet meeting. Perhaps friends first then progressing into a long term relationship. I am wanting to find a man who actually has something interesting to say. I want a man that can make me laugh, and who can keep me on my toes. He needs to be understanding and compassionate. He must have goals and be willing to reach for them. I must say considering I am 6 ft. I prefer a man at least as tall as me. I am a curvy woman. I am not BBW. I am not a toothpick. I smoke, I don't drink. I am a single mother, with absolutely no drama from the father. I am an independent thinking, down to earth, all around good gal. I work full time and I'm in college full time. I can make the time for someone worthwhile. I have my head on my shoulders and I'm currently reaching for specific goals in my life. I am not asking for handouts from anyone and don't expect a knight in shining armor. If you like what you have read then by all means please send me a message. Your photo gets mine. ]]>

<![CDATA[My name is Stephanie, and i am 19. I am looking for a country guy to enjoy the things i love doing. I ride horses almost everyday, and I own 5 of them. I love being outside riding my horse, 4wheeling, bonfire, playing with my dogs, anything outdoors and im good. I also love cuddling on the couch watching movies, go bowling, i love sushi! I am a very talkative, laugh all the time, and need someone who i can carry a conversation with who can make me laugh and take my silly jokes. I know when its time to be serious tho.... ]]>

<![CDATA[Like to do anything by the water, outdoors, walking the park, watching sports on T.V., a good movie, bowling, dancing, non smoker, Just like to find a nice guy that wants a good honest lovable woman in their lives. Age is unimportant if you really like that person. Have a great day. ]]>

<![CDATA[Well gentlemen I'm getting very discouraged that love really does exist. I know he's out there looking like I am and just hasn't found me yet..lol I have posted many times online and found to many looking for a one time roll in hay and I'm not that type of women. I'm a great catch and have a great personality! Im 43 5'10 and blonde green eyes and body image presently isn't great but working on it to be the real me again and with the right one to help me, support me and encourage me will be greatly rewarded with a priceless gem..lol Pic for pic and please be local.....look forward to God leading my man to me.....waiting....]]>

<![CDATA[When I was younger, I met many women through personal ads; of course, back then there was no internet, only written letters to P.O. Boxes. Although I am now married, I do continue to read ads, mostly as a study of human nature. I discovered something interesting. Any person who attracts the same "losers" into their lives needs to find what it is about him or herself that is attracting these people. We all tend to be attracted to something specific, but attached to that something, is also something we do not like. I also found, that any woman who says she is looking for a man who is not afraid of a commitment, is actually herself terrified of a relationship, but can not admit that to her self. When man starts to get close, she pushes him away. When he withdraws, she tries to pull him back in. This goes back and forth several times, until eventually he gives up and leaves for good. I call the is the dance of the porcupines. You want to be close, until you feel his needles. This also goes for many other things. If a person attracts one or two jerks out of twice that many relationships, then that is part of the dating experience. If he or she only has bad things to say about every person met, then it is time to figure out why he or she is attracting this. I know you did not ask for an amature psychologist, so go ahead and blast me, or flag me if you want; however, you might want to think about it for a while. Look for positive things to ask for. If you are a non smoker, you might say you are a non smoker and prefer the same; that sounds a lot better than NO SMOKERS. If you want a relationship, say that you are open to a future if you meet the right person; and hopefully any one who responds to my ad will also be open to the same if we feel a connection. Read every post you have made, tear it apart, and try to figure out what it is that is attracting the same person. Then, change it a little every time, as an experiment, to see what different kinds of responses you receive.]]>

<![CDATA[Soy una mujer americana buscando un hombre latino para la amistad, pasar buenos momentos y despues quien sabe?!?!?! Si Ud. es un hombre honesto, trabajador, sincero y feliz, mandeme un email. Por favor adjunte tu foto. :-)]]>

<![CDATA[I am a divorced, white 37 year old single mom of 2 who is looking for someone to have a relationship with. The holidays are coming up and I would like to spend it with someone. I am looking for a single, white male, nonsmoker who takes care of himself and has strong morals. I enjoy cooking, football, bowling, reading and spending time with my children. Please be a guy who is looking for whats on the inside instead of only whats on the outside. ]]>

<![CDATA[Well, I can't help but feel a little silly using craigslist; however, I figured it might be a good way to meet people I might not otherwise since I'm always so busy with school. I'm 21 and a senior in college in Columbia, but figured I'd broaden my search by trying Charlotte. I'm on here looking to meet someone cool to hang out with...I hate drama, liars, and fakes. While personality is very important to me, looks do matter. I prefer someone between the ages of 21 and 28ish, taller, great smile, and someone who takes care of himself. As for personality: intelligent, outgoing, funny, fun to be around, ambitious-I'm working hard to get what I want out of life, and I'm looking for the same mindset in a guy. To describe myself...I am about 5'2, curvy, thick, dark brown hair, blue eyes, one tattoo, have my nose, tongue, and lip pierced. I'd love to meet someone to head downtown with, go out for dinner, movies, even bars-just about anything. I'm not comfortable with posting pictures on the internet, but I do have them to trade. If you're lookin for a fun girl, who can be a great friend, send me a message...I don't bite-at least not hard ;) ]]>

<![CDATA[Email me if you really are looking for a relationship or just companionship with an attractive but slightly overweight, divorced, intelligent, fun loving women. You must be single, divorced, drug, disease free, non smoker, responsible man who can hold a conversation, likes to laugh, try new things,owns a suit or at least willing to buy one for those special evenings out, and likes to travel. Your picture gets mine. Please no players, professional daters, or married men]]>

<![CDATA[looking for some 420 new to area and dont really kno anyone can any gents help me out???? ppppppllleeasseee]]>

<![CDATA[ I would definitely say that I'm: confident, sensitive, humble, and single. A few words that fit me are real, geeky, drama-free, opinionated and cheerful. I love movies, especially scifi and romantic drama. I want someone who can hear my complaining with a smile. Please be relaxing, sensual and sure of what you are looking for in a woman. ]]>

<![CDATA[I'm looking for a long term relationship with a man who is educated, responsible, single, can hold down a job, and interested in something other than just a sexual relationship. My idea of a great first date would be getting to know someone over drinks. I like guys to be taller than me and not super skinny. I am attracted mainly to white men who are 25 to 30 years in age. I would describe myself as big and beautiful with blonde hair and brown eyes. Im about 5'5 in height. I am college educated and have a steady job. your pic gets mine...]]>

<![CDATA[just looking to see if any nice looking men in the belmont area are looking ,WHITE ONLY 27-48. tired of driving far away, want someone close that has his own place. Will drive for the right man! your pic gets mine. ]]>

<![CDATA[Arrived back from a lame ass night club just a few minutes ago. The guys there sucked. So my sister is making me do this because she think I need to. Bah, just because she is getting married, she thinks she knows everything! I don't know if I need this, but it would be nice to meet a great guy. I love my family and want a man who cares about his loved ones as well. So don't be a stranger, hope to hear from you soon]]>

<![CDATA[I want to meet latino men....29 and younger...lets go out, you can spoil me and I can spoil you...beautiful green eyed woman here...]]>

<![CDATA[I try, but it seems like the majority of the men I meet are just not worth it. They have too many issues and play too many games. I am the real deal and do not play games. Is there one man out there who is educated, kind, interesting, nice to look at, and not the left overs from some sad buffet spread out for humanity. You might ask why I am alone? I wasn't, but he died. I am over it and looking, but I am not finding anything worth it. Are you out there? Are you looking too? Have we missed eachother in a crowd? I would like to find you. 5'7--average--female curves--educated--good job--comfortable in jeans and formal wear--no games--no challenges--no one-nighters Only serious responses, please. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hello, So I thought I’d give this another try and see if I can find someone I click with. I’m not really sure what to say or how to describe myself, I’m surprised that I’m even doing this because I can be a little shy. I’m 26, half greek and irish, work 2 jobs (but don’t live to work), I live in the university area of Charlotte. I like to listen to music, watch movies, read, and take drives. When I go out I like going out and spending time with friends, I go to bars and have gone to clubs but I prefer bars because you have a better chance of having a conversation. I’m just a laid back, chill girl who is the jeans and t-shirt kind. Don’t get me wrong I’m not a tomboy, I like to wear makeup and fix my hair but I’m not high maintence and I’m just more comfortable in jeans. Now as far as what I’m looking for, I’m looking for a similar kind of guy who can also challenge me and accept me as an equal. I was raised in the south and would like to find a southern gentleman. I prefer a guy whose 24-30 years old, single, white, and can send me a pic. I’m not looking for a one night stand, I just want to get to know you and see if we hit it off and see where it goes. If you’re interested send me and email, preferably with a picture and we’ll see how it goes.]]>

<![CDATA[Hey Gentleman! I'm a single black woman in need of a friendship (maybe more) with a single black man. Please be drama free, smoke free, drug free, employed, have transportation and have a home with no "female" roommates. Need to have a sense of humor, average to great looking and please be over 5ft 10in tall. Remember your pic gets mine. I look forward to hearing from you!]]>

<![CDATA[ So I'm moving back to Charlotte after being away for almost 3 years. A little about me, I'm 24, 5'6'' and curvy but not BBW. I'm fairly energetic and generally happy with a bubbly personality so I need someone with at least moderately high energy to keep up with me. I like movies, nights out on the town or even just getting together with some friends for a few round of bowling over pizza and a pitcher of beer. I'm not interested in someone who is just interested in sex so if that's your plan, just move on to another ad. I'm a fun woman to hang out with or so I'm told. Only one way to find out eh? ]]>

<![CDATA[Hello and I would like to start off by saying I had a posting on here last night that went woman looking for man who aint scared to spend a little money.I am not that kind of woman but after having your heart broken time and time again and giving your all just to have yourself made a fool of or people taking your kindness for a weakness starts to make you not even want to believe that there are any good men left out there but I don't want anyone who read that and who is taken the time to read this get the wrong impression about me.I am 28 and very laid back and I dont really like the club scene but I do like to go to the movies or out to eat or things in that nature. I love to cook also so I am kind of a homebody chillin in the house with a good movie is fine to me.I am a loyal and trustworthy friend and thats all I am looking for in a man I feel everything else will fall in place if its meant to be.I also like a man who can stand on his own meaning own job own place and own car because I am tired of men trying to leach off of me.So if you read the posting yesterday then this kind of sums up why it was writtin.]]>

<![CDATA[hmmmm...Internet is now working and so is my laptop - (made it hard to reply!!) so it's time to try this again... I'm a bbw...but still...interesting, educated, Christian, snuggly, passionate, fun, funny, football lovin lady - looking for friendship, conversation and who knows... shall I go on?? Most men get stuck at the bbw part. I respect that - but if you're still here - and NOT MARRIED!!! please feel free to say hello - maybe we have something in common. I'd love to find out... tell me a little bit about you. Rude/crude messages/pictures will get no reply - so please send them to someone who will *ahem* appreciate them. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hi, there.First have to be someone who loves kids, because i have 2 wonderful daughters and they are my world Just looking for a nice, normal guy to spend time with and see what develops. Who knows it could turn into a long term relationship. I'm not looking for a hook up or a one night stand. I've been there done that type of thing and it gets old. I would like to meet someone between the ages of 20-30. Some of my interests include music, going outside, to the park and shopping. As for me I am 20 y/o I am a full time single mother. I work full time. Part time college student. I am a BBW Pics www.myspace.com/doctor1_doctor1 ]]>

<![CDATA[Hey yall. I'm 22 yrs old from Charlotte. Just looking for a fun guy to become friends with. Likes:Sports, movies, rd trips, anything outside, 420 friendly, photography, concerts and live music is a big plus, and cuddle buddies Dislikes:Short guys, bad breath, bad teeth, cockiness!! If you are looking for a drama free chick..IM HERE! Not looking to settle down or anything serious. If it turns into that cool but def not searchin for it. Ur pic gets mine!]]>

<![CDATA[Hi, just like the title says, I am definately a workaholic. I work 56 hours a week and very much enjoy what I do, I'm a CNA. (2 jobs, one as an InHome Care provider, and also at a nursing home in town). Because I work so much, I don't really have time to make new friends outside of work, and even then i don't mix business with personal. I have Saturday and Sunday afternoon/evenings off (I work 3 hours both mornings), and depending on the season, I'll either go shopping, watch a movie, go out to eat, catch some seasonal entertainment (spring: hiking, summer: carowinds, fall: halloween, winter: christmas), mostly I love spending time riding my horses (i have 3). During the week I keep myself on a very tight schedule, but weekends are free. I'm just wondering if there are any other workaholics out there who don't have the time to really meet during the week and would like some company or like to join me as company on the weekends, either as friends or to see if maybe there could be some chemistry...being a horse lover is a plus, especially if you know how to ride, lol. (pointing out at this point that my horses are not for beginners) I guess I'm just a good ole' country girl looking for the fabled 'good ole country boy'. a little about me, 5'10, 245# (yes, i really do weigh that much), I work out regularly, own my own home, my own car, completely support myself, and am quite content with my lifestyle...should also note that i'm very stubborn and very independent, lol... Also, I prefer white guys. sorry, just my preference. please send a pic with your response as I've included a couple here... Thanks for your time :)]]>

<![CDATA[SBF, mature, youthful, looking for some fun, light-hearted, entertaining company tonight with a man with "standards". (Not looking for anything cheap or sleazy.) If you're a little bored, or restless, as I am, say hello -- tell me about yourself. Let's see if we can get together. ]]>

<![CDATA[Ok so I've tried this before and had no luck so here I am trying again. If I get specific then I'm sorry, I just know what I'm looking for. Also, I don't want a one night stand, I'm looking for a guy I want to hang out with and see where it goes and see if a possible relationship can come of it or at least a friendship. I'm a 26 year old single white female. I'm just a chill, jeans and t-shirt kind of girl and I'm looking for a guy who's ok with that. I perfer a white guy (nothing again certain races I'm just attracted to white guys), a guy 24 to 30, single, and it ok with an independent woman. also, I like to see a pic of you. I want to know if we click but I also know that we have to be physically attracted to each other. So if you're interested email me and we'll see how it goes.]]>

<![CDATA[I am looking for someone who can help me out financially right now. I am a real person. I will not direct you to another site or send you to some chat room. I am only looking for serious and respectful guys who are willing to help out. I am not looking to exchange sexual favors for money so lets be clear. If you want to know more and think you can help let me know and we can talk more]]>

<![CDATA[I am a single Mom that is attending school. I am looking for a friend that may turn into something more. Never done this before, but I thought I would give it a try. I got to meet someone somewhere!!!!]]>

<![CDATA[If anyone wants to talk I'm up for it....send FACE pics NOT cock pics please lol.....tell me a little about yourself and maybe we can start talking.....I have brown eyes brown hair and I'm more to love I guess]]>

<![CDATA[First of all, this is a long ad. I realize that and wouldn’t want you to continue if you’re a “typical” guy or are just looking for another notch in your bedpost. Also, my preference is white men who are between the ages of 25 and 40. As I’ve found in the past, some men think they are warranted to send me messages that are quite frankly rude or crass, or suggest that if I lost 40lbs I’d be datable (or fuckable.) Do us both a favor, and don’t waste your time or mine. I am not everyone’s type just like 90% of men aren’t mine, but crazily enough, I don’t find myself driven to confront men on the street and tell them so. Now, on to my random list of facts. If any of this catches your eye, first of all, I applaud you and secondly, I’d love to hear from you. An attached photo is always a plus since we’re all visual. 1. I’m 25 and single. Obviously I’m white (see photos below) and live just South of Charlotte. 2. I’m comfortable in my own skin even with its imperfections. 3. I know the difference between your and you’re and their, there, and they’re. 4. I’ve loved and lost. 5. I DVR Real Time with Bill Maher every Friday night, so it’s a safe bet that I’m not conservative. 6. I read. For fun. Seriously. 7. I love foie gras as much as I do Yoohoo or beefaroni (yes, there are 3 cans in my cabinets currently)…or a great burger. 8. I don’t own sweatpants. 9. I have a small group of close friends. I don’t believe that having 4,000 friends on MySpace or Facebook says anything of value about a person. 10. I not only love, but like, my family. I also care if they like the hypothetical “you.” 11. Both my pets are rescues and honestly, it turns my stomach when someone pays $900 for a full bred puppy. I’ll probably want to adopt when I start a family as well. 12. I’m not a dozen roses type of girl. I love offbeat romance and dig old love songs…I want to meet someone who makes me feel like the songs are about me. 13. I’m a Southern girl, born and raised, minus the racism, homophobia, lack of culture, Bible thumping, and really strong Southern “drawl.” I do stand behind sweet tea though. 14. I don’t “get” the Joy of Cooking. I’ll think it’s totally hot when you do though. 15. I pout when I lose. 16. Yellow is my favorite color. Has been for years and years. 17. Spending $250 at a bar, stumbling through downtown Charlotte with people who are reliving their days in a sorority or fraternity is not my idea of a fun Saturday night. 18. I paint. Badly. But I love the release I get from it. 19. I like and respect people who are smarter than me. Learning is something that should never be left behind when you leave school. 20. Even though I’ll probably be no good, I want to take dance lessons. 21. I haven’t travelled like I want to. I have a desire to explore new places and experience new things with someone who can share in that joy. 22. I don’t think football players are all that talented but I’ll jump at the chance to watch a hockey game (live, of course.) 23. I think holding hands is underrated. I think small connections like that lead to bigger connections in bed. 24. I think people who are into indie music and movies and own Apple computers are super cool. One day, I will be that person! Damn it. 25. I hope this odd approach may lead to some interesting emails from guys who have a lot to offer because I know I have a fair share to offer the right person. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hey I go to UNC-Charlotte, I'm not really into the party or club scene although me and my friends party among ourselves it gets kinda boring here on campus, so I'm just looking for a cool guy to chill with. I'm not looking for sex, I just wanna smoke eat pizza and watch movies. I'm black, some what funny, crazy (the fun kind), and a bit of a chunky butt (But im not huge either), ummmm thats about hit. Peace out! Oh yea and send a pic, you'll get mine]]>